What are the benefits of trying different gay sex positions?
Gay sex positions don't mean anal sex all the time. Gay sex positions can be mutual masturbation, oral sex, tantric massage - whatever you like. "It doesn't need to be inserted every time, or at all," says Lyndsey Murray, AASECT-certified sex therapist and owner of Relationship Matters Therapy. "It's a heterosexual construct misapplied to gay relationships and speaks to the fact that sex is more than penetration than we think."
That said, there’s a reason anal sex is so popular. It offers the feeling of penetration (whether you’re the giver or the receiver), as well as the glories of prostate stimulation—aka: the walnut-sized gland on the upper wall of the anus. “When the prostate gets touched or massaged, the partner bottoming (being penetrated) will want to be penetrated even more, and the orgasm will be intense,” says psychotherapist Lee Phillips, a certified sex and couples therapist (CSCT). "You can also work towards a P-gasm by using your finger or firing up a prostate massage toy.”
As with all butt stuff, get a big tub of anal-friendly lube and use it liberally. “When having anal sex, lube is not optional. (Spit may be hot, but it doesn't cut it!),” says Cosmo columnist Zachary Zane, LGBTQ+ expert for Lovehoney. “Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating. You typically want to use a thicker, long-lasting, silicone-based lube when having anal sex. (You have to re-apply water-based lubes often, and no one wants to stop having sex repeatedly to re-apply lube.)”
If you’re into toys and/or you’re partner-free, there are tons of penis- and prostate-specific sex toys including masturbation sleeves or strokers, cock rings, cock ring/prostate stim combo toys, and ye olde butt plugs. “Glass toys such as glass butt plugs or glass dildos are great because they’re slick, comfortable, and allow for sexual stimulation through heat and cold,” says Phillips.
Whatever you do, the usual rules apply. “Sex is all about communication,” says Phillips. “Before trying a new position, easing into it can really maximize the pleasure. What happens in the bedroom is different from what we see in porn or in the media. Speak up when something hurts, tickles, or it is unpleasant in some other way. The goal here is to get creative and curious about your partner.”
Gay sex position names：
1. Doggie Style - A gay sex position
2. Missionary Position
3. Spooning- a great gay sex position
4. PuKnee Up for man to man sex
5. Back It In/Bottom Power Up while having gay sex
6. Cliff Driver- one of the best gay sex positions
7. See-Saw/Waterfall Gay sex position
8. Squatters Rights/Nip and tongue gay sex position
9. I Can Fly/Superman
10. Stand And Deliver - man to man sex position
11. Rusty Trombone
12. Cowboy Gay Sex Position
How Does Gay Sex Feel?
The answer to how does gay sex feel cannot be described precisely. The experience varies from individual to individual. However, as per surveys, it feels good to those who have experienced it consensually and in the right manner.
Summary of gay sex positions
Gay anal sex is a fairly broad topic. A variety of positions can be performed for pleasure and comfort at the same time. For a pleasurable experience, whatever position you try, make sure each partner is comfortable with the action. Remember, it’s all about happiness and contentment.
